I got my mojo back in like an hour. Haha!

 

People said it’s good being friendly. But I think that being friendly has it’s cons.

I always got this ‘rumors’ flying around me just because I got close to a friend of mine who is apparently of an opposite sex. Is it wrong to have a best friend that is of opposite sex ?

I know that in ‘When Harry Met Sally’ , Harry said “Men and Women can never be best friends because there are always sex in between,”.

Well , I don’t agreed with that. I have lots of guy friends and we never have that ‘love’ blossom between us except friendship. I love my best friends. Yes , I do. But I love him as my brother. NOT my lover.

So I really don’t get it why people always have this assumption in their minds that when a guy and a girl get close is because either one of them have feelings for one another or because they are an couple. I mean , DUDE. This is the 21st century!! It’s not wrong for having a best friend of opposite sex!!

And sometimes guys often misinterpret of my friendliness. Do I need to tell you that I’m being friendly ?? Do I need to say that before we have a conversation that all this conversation is just a matter of friendship and not because I’m flirting or have any sort of feelings towards you ? Dude.. Get a life.

If it’s not the guy , there will always be the guy’s friends. They will spread the rumors that I have a crush on that guy and that’s why I’m all friendly and shit. Which is in my opinion , a total BS.

I’m seriously allergic to these kind of people.  Grow up and be matured!

These kind of people are suffocating my space and my breathe.

I can’t help myself for being friendly. It just comes naturally in me and as what the saying goes : Old habit dies hard.

I rather be friendly than being a total loner and an outcast.