Been a while I’ve neglected my blog. Sorry people! Been super duper busy with life lately. Now only I’ve got the time to do some blogging.

I’ve come across with this one ‘special’ quote :

“If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they're yours; if they don't they never were.”

Thank you RICHARD BACH for creating that thing up.

In my personal opinion, I dislike this very very much. I can’t think of a reason why you should set someone free though you love him/her so much. It’s a cowardly act. HONESTLY.

I personally think that if you truly love that someone, you have to do whatever it takes to prove to him/her that you are worth of all the actions you did. What you need to show is the EFFORT that you would do whatever it takes to keep her/him long enough with you. It’s true you can’t force someone to love you, but feelings change. It just takes time.

People said you do crazy things when you’re in love. So, why not you act all crazy and out of the box just to show that you love that person and NOT backing out and let her/him walks away and in the end, you will end up with nothing but a broken heart and a depressed self for a couple of months.

If you do end up doing those crazy stuff, at least you’ll be relieved to let your feelings out and let that person knows how much she/he truly means in your life. He might think that you’re obsessed or anything but as in a song ‘Cheryl Cole – Fight for this love’ : Anything that’s worth having, is sure enough worth fighting for. We gotta fight fight fight for this love. =)

So, guys and gals. Don’t be afraid to express your feelings and keep holding on to your loved ones. If you can’t make her happy, try to find that ‘mojo’ in a relationship and work it!! Don’t back out and think, “I want you to be happy. But it’s not with me kind of crap”. That kind of crap only exists if you’re butt lazy to make a change in you, your partner and the relationship!

My advice : DON’T.. DO NOT.. EVER.. EVER.. GIVE UP.

As a saying goes, When there’s a will, there’s a way. =)

But of course, if the feelings are no longer there.. What can both of you do right? So, letting go is probably the best act that you could’ve done. If it’s not meant to be, it’s not meant to be. No need to torture both of your feelings. Cause I know, God created each one of us for the special someone. So keep on looking! Close the chapter and move on!! ;)